Tuesday, August 30, 2016

#1: Why men don't like to talk about marriage. Read & have fun, make your opinion.

Hello Everybody,
You are welcome to this first piece of social life and our topic today is "Why Men don't like to talk about marriage". Ladies most of you must have experience very sad moments when you just admired a wedding gown in a movie and it ruined your dinner date, or may be you smiled at a just wedded couple and your man abandoned you in the drive way, could have been that guy who broke up with you because you started talking about marriage often. Y'all must have sat down for hours trying to find answers, Here together with the guys we will figure out why they do not like to talk about marriage.

The first reason why Men do not like to talk about marriage is that they are scared of losing their freedom. Them guys love the feeling of being out on a hang out with friends and not have to think of coming back home not drunk and not to worry about what time they come back home. They just don't wanna grow up from bringing home a bunch of girls, they wanna wake up every morning brush their teeth and dumb their toothbrushes in the pen case on the table without anyone having to tell them all the times to be orderly. Others wanna be free to work late hours, have business dinners with who ever, and hustle without being worried of always keeping up with the husband thing.

Men are scared of losing friends. They understand that marriage is a full time commitment and would wanna live it to the end, but no just yet. How will they shone away that best childhood friend who is the best game mate that would-be wives hate because they are a distraction.? They obvious don't want to miss those devious friends who have helped keep their life time secrets. Just not ready yet to leave those female friends that would-be wives don't wanna see.

Men are scared of horrible divorces. Some men are victims of the disastrous and monstrous effects
of divorces: ladies playing smart on their husbands, divorcing and leaving them with nothing, suicidal effects of separated families, negative feed back from official duties and circles. The thought of all these scare the men to death.

The fear of being a Father. ladies you might have  gone visiting your aunt with your boyfriend and his mood changed when you carried your aunt's baby. You probably are experiencing the worst confusion of your life because when your nieces and nephews are around on holidays, your boyfriend comes around more often to play with them, take them out for ice cream but when you just dare to mention about settling down and having a family on your own, you are abandoned in a shopping mall. It might get worst when your own man beats the neighbour's kids for trespassing; they are scared neighbour's kids will arouse your anxiety for babies. when some men just imagine their sweet night sleep interrupted by babies, they go mad, or they even imagine giving birth to imbeciles or baby's poo everywhere. This really scares them from marriage

sysysblog is a collective success, therefore guys please tell us why you do not like to talk about marriage while the ladies tell us why they think their men give them cold shoulders on marriage talks. your opinion is appreciated please use the comment space below


  1. Hahahaha, Sysy you got me there again with a nice one. My ex boyfriend told me he does not want to talk about marriage simply because he knows it will eventually happen. He is not scared unlike women who are scared of running out of age. lol.
    Guess what i see him now begging a certain girl for over two years for marriage like he's scared of menopaus

  2. hahaha me personally not scared of fathering a child, but one thing is sure when it comes to marriage, responsibility is inevitable and most men are afraid of responsibility.

  3. Men dont know ho to screw a single gal al dia lives oh, so na weti deh happen be that

  4. Hahahahahahaha haha....... Sysyy all those reasons are valid from for me yaa

  5. I don't think so because I love to be a family man and being near my family always but not everybody has that in mind because some men just feel as to enjoy life before getting into marriage which is normal

  6. I don't think so because I love to be a family man and being near my family always but not everybody has that in mind because some men just feel as to enjoy life before getting into marriage which is normal